I love him but...

You found your perfect man but beware of the less than perfect baggage he might bring along. iDiva warns you about the 'others' in his life.
The pesky mother-in-law
Dealing with your man's mother is something you have to do, irrespective of how often you meet her. Men love their mothers and you'll always be 'wrong', so don't be a nag and play your cards smartly instead. She is bound to criticise your housekeeping skills, your cooking skills and even your ability to dress well. To begin with, acknowledge that your mum-in-law is the expert. Call her as many times a day as possible and ask her questions on recipes, cleaning solutions, her drycleaner's number and questions on what her son likes to eat for dinner. Your MIL will soon realise that being the expert is hampering her social life and she will amicably back-off.
The bad-boy friend
Every man has that one alter-ego guy friend—the kind who tells dirty jokes, drinks too much or just desperately wants to get hooked. So, for whatever reason you hate his best friend, you need to take the right steps. Instead of trying to get him out of your life, encourage your man to spend time with him. When he comes over, kill him with kindness and portray yourself as the ideal girlfriend. Soon, your man will realise where his priorities lie and Mr. Best Friend will take his rightful place on the backburner. Never let your guy know that you hate his friends, it will make him hangout with them even more.
The sexy co-worker
If you share an open and loving relationship with your partner, you need not feel jealous or threatened. If the sexy co-worker is trying to act up with your man, then show her who the boss is. Interact with her at office parties or a gathering, but keep it brief. Stay close to your man but don't get clingy, keep your poise. Never try the confrontation technique, you will only land up looking jealous, nagging and insecure.
The annoying little sister
It can be difficult to deal with your boyfriend/husband doting on his little sister. Since women tend to get more protective about their territory, it's only natural that his sister will fight harder and play her cute cards vying for his attention once you'll are in a relationship. The key is to assure her that you're not a threat. Also, every once in a while pamper her with a thoughtful gift or take her out shopping. Even if she doesn't reciprocate, your partner will know that you tried doing the right thing and will respect you for it.
The ex-girlfriend
Many people choose to keep in touch with their exes and while it may not mean anything to them, it can be a sore spot for you whenever your boyfriend even has a phone conversation with the ex. Firstly, find out why she is still in his life, whether it’s because she and your partner share common friends or a family connection. If theirs is a once in a blue moon social interaction, then you have nothing to worry about. If not, talk to him openly. If nothing else works, bring your own ex into the equation and if you are faking one, then make sure he is hot and nice and totally threatens your partner!