Friday, August 13, 2010

I love him but...


You found your perfect man but beware of the less than perfect baggage he might bring along. iDiva warns you about the 'others' in his life.
The pesky mother-in-law
Dealing with your man's mother is something you have to do, irrespective of how often you meet her. Men love their mothers and you'll always be 'wrong', so don't be a nag and play your cards smartly instead. She is bound to criticise your housekeeping skills, your cooking skills and even your ability to dress well. To begin with, acknowledge that your mum-in-law is the expert. Call her as many times a day as possible and ask her questions on recipes, cleaning solutions, her drycleaner's number and questions on what her son likes to eat for dinner. Your MIL will soon realise that being the expert is hampering her social life and she will amicably back-off.
The bad-boy friend
Every man has that one alter-ego guy friend—the kind who tells dirty jokes, drinks too much or just desperately wants to get hooked. So, for whatever reason you hate his best friend, you need to take the right steps. Instead of trying to get him out of your life, encourage your man to spend time with him. When he comes over, kill him with kindness and portray yourself as the ideal girlfriend. Soon, your man will realise where his priorities lie and Mr. Best Friend will take his rightful place on the backburner. Never let your guy know that you hate his friends, it will make him hangout with them even more.
The sexy co-worker
If you share an open and loving relationship with your partner, you need not feel jealous or threatened. If the sexy co-worker is trying to act up with your man, then show her who the boss is. Interact with her at office parties or a gathering, but keep it brief. Stay close to your man but don't get clingy, keep your poise. Never try the confrontation technique, you will only land up looking jealous, nagging and insecure.
The annoying little sister
It can be difficult to deal with your boyfriend/husband doting on his little sister. Since women tend to get more protective about their territory, it's only natural that his sister will fight harder and play her cute cards vying for his attention once you'll are in a relationship. The key is to assure her that you're not a threat. Also, every once in a while pamper her with a thoughtful gift or take her out shopping. Even if she doesn't reciprocate, your partner will know that you tried doing the right thing and will respect you for it.
The ex-girlfriend
Many people choose to keep in touch with their exes and while it may not mean anything to them, it can be a sore spot for you whenever your boyfriend even has a phone conversation with the ex. Firstly, find out why she is still in his life, whether it’s because she and your partner share common friends or a family connection. If theirs is a once in a blue moon social interaction, then you have nothing to worry about. If not, talk to him openly. If nothing else works, bring your own ex into the equation and if you are faking one, then make sure he is hot and nice and totally threatens your partner!

Wednesday, August 4, 2010

10 Easy Flirt Tips


If you want to know how to flirt like a pro, you've got to learn the signs. Follow these flirt tips and practice till you're an expert flirt.
1. Choose Your Targets
You don't have to have a crush on someone in order to flirt. Practice flirting with random people you see every day - people who might not even be on your dating radar - on order to hone your skills. That way, you'll have some flirting experience under your belt when you approach the people who really matter.
2. Have an Opening Line
Find a reason to talk to the person. If you're in a class with them, come up with a question about an assignment. If they're standing in line behind you at a concert, ask about the band. Get creative, and be ready to respond to whatever they say.
3. Make Eye Contact
If you don't make eye contact, you'll look bored or uninterested, and that's not an impression you want to give. Too shy to look them right in the eyes? Here's a trick: look at the spot right between their eyes. It'll look like eye contact to them.
4. Come Up With a Compliment
Pick one thing you like about the way they look - like their hair, their smile or an article of clothing. Let them know in a friendly way how much you like it. It'll make them feel good and will open them up to you. (If you can't think of an opening line for tip #2, a compliment will do.)
5. Smile
You don't have to go all Bozo the Clown, but the idea is to look like you enjoy talking to them. So be sure to throw them a smile whenever it makes sense. If they shoot one back, you'll know that they like talking to you, too.
6. Flirt With Your Body
The body language you use when you flirt is just as important as what you say. Use good posture, point your body towards the person and try to find excuses to touch them. For more on how to do that, check these body language flirting tips.
7. Keep It Light
You'll get a way better response if you chat about fun, happy stuff (like your new puppy) than serious or sad stuff (like when your puppy got hit by a train). The point of flirting isn't to bare your soul or share your honest opinions about everything. It's to open the door to lots more conversations down the road.
8. Beware of Awkward Silences
Once the convo drags, it's probably gone for good. Fill an awkward silence by asking the other person a question. Can't think of one? Ask them about something they're wearing or something in your environment (like a painting on the wall, or the music that's playing).
9. Wrap It Up
If you're not interested in talking anymore, politely find an excuse to head off into the sunset. If you are interested, give them a way to get in touch with you - like your phone number or Facebook name. This is (hopefully) just your first convo of many, so save some of that charm for the next time.
10. Practice, Practice, Practice
No one's perfect at flirting the first time around. If the idea of flirting still gives you butterflies, don't worry - it just means that you need more practice. The more you flirt, the easier it'll get.

Monday, August 2, 2010

GIRLS HAIR STYLE AND HAIR SETTINGS


Some recommendation for hair setting and hairstyle are given below. First of all, our hairstyle is according to age. Our hairstyle must be appropriate to your body structure our hairstyle appropriate to our ethnicity. Our hairstyle must be appropriate our face our hairstyle should be matching our body makeup you can improve the condition of your hair style using the given formula.
1- Use a mixture of 1/2 teaspoon of gelatin in of ½ cup of warm water as a settling lotion before styling damp hair.
2- Use a mixture of 1 teaspoon of sugar in 1 cup warm water as a setting lotion before styling damp hair.
3- Make a mixture of 2 table spoon vegetable oil 1 egg and use it as a setting lotion before styling hair. Wash the hair with shampoo after one hour.